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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are an asshole. I bet you don't look as good you think you do. [/quote]

Really?  I am an asshole for this?  I don't understand that.  And why would you assume that I don't look as good as I think I do?  Actually, my husband compliments how great I look all the time.  I am confused by your response.[/quote]

NP here.  You may be beautiful on the outside, but you're ugly and shallow on the inside.

You cannot change your DH.  Only he can.  You can manipulate him into doing something, but in this case, since it is only for vanity and superficial reasons, it is really just callow.  He doesn't look as good as you'd like him.  You don't want a husband, you want arm candy.

While you spend a lot of time working on your body, you really need to spend more time working on your attitude because you are turning into a nagging old anchor of a wife and despite how you look physically, your DH may not care for you much longer either.

If you really want him to change, talk to him about his life, his job.  Find out what is exhausting him and making him need to veg out on the computer.  For some of us, we get burned out with the relentlessness of adding childcare on top of everything else.  Sometimes you need a vacation or a break just to recover your mental sanity.  Find out if he is feeling that burnt out feeling.  Find out if perhaps he's missing something he used to have (a fishing weekend?  A golfing weekend?  A night out with the boys?) and see if something like that may restore some of his drive.[/quote]

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