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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]IF an opposing viewpoint is so hurtful, then I might suggest that one's decision is not fully made up. LIke the other poster said, " How is it hurtful and offensive to give information? None of the posts in that thread were rude or trying to be intentionally hurtful." You are being hurtful by trying to shut down real communication. [/quote] No, a hurtful choice is still a choice. Just because it hurts, it doesn't mean it wasn't well thought out or that all the possibilities weren't considered. Making the right decision does NOT mean making the decision that makes you feel better. [/quote] WEll, then that's all part and parcel of being a grown-up and living with the consequences of our choices, in all areas of our lives. We make certain decisions every day, and consequences ensue. We feel good about some aspects, we feel badly about some aspects. But we live with it. That's life. You cannot go thru life saying, "LA LA LA," to yourself if you face a sad thought or perspetive or voiced opinion about something. You made your choice. I respect that. Now I as anoather fellow adult can share my opinion on the issue. You can choose to plug your fingers in your ears and go "LALALA" but I can still tell my opinion. [/quote] Oh, sure. That's why I make it a point to tell women who have decided to divorce their abusive husbands that they are going to hell, and I describe in detail how, exactly, their children will be traumatized by the divorce. And when someone has decided to stay with their adulterous spouse, I give them detailed descriptions of the spouse's likely sexual liaisons. Because they need to own it. Own it until they feel bad enough to make the choice I want them to make.[/quote]
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