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[quote=Anonymous]I mean, I wouldn’t ask, but I often told my mom she should get divorced when I was an older kid and teenager. My parents hated each other. My father was cold and aloof, and treated us both pretty badly. Not abuse. Just no love or affection. But I guess she was scared to do it financially, and she says she doesn’t regret it now that they’re old. But he’s still pretty awful and sometimes I am not aware of how much it all affected me and then realize how weird my world view is compared to a lot of other people. But I don’t think I could or would ask my kid what they thought unless it was in the context of therapy and having an outside person ask them about their feelings. It can be pretty traumatic living in a very actively unhappy and tense household.[/quote]
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