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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I predict the diagnosis itself will take up the majority of oxygen in the room. Sure, she might comment on her late notice, but the problem is big enough to take up the focus. [/quote] It depends on the person. Clearly, you assume the mom/daughter are normal with a normal relationship, but what if she's/they are not... I was pregnant with twins after 5 miscarriages and I didn't tell my mom until after I lost 1 twin and still carried the second (maybe 10 weeks pregnant). All my mom focused on was thay she was not the first person to know about my pregnancy. Just to be clear, I only told my husband! She didn't speak to me until the baby was 5 months old and caused me great stress throughout the already stressful pregnancy - triangulating people, back stabbing ,etc, etc. Oh, and she didn't hold back in telling me I was a horrible person, horrible daughter, and horrible mother.[/quote]
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