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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, you are a rough crowd, my DS contacted me to discuss. My involvement is just a spectator and loving mom who does not want to see her son unhappy by [b]someone who misrepresented herself.[/b] Just wondered how other couples manage this situation and thought this group would comment on that experience.[/quote]

I don't think this is fair. She changed her mind. It happens. He can either decide it's a dealbreaker or not. [/quote]

I doesn’t even sound like she changed her mind.

She was okay living in DC. As she’s getting older she’s probably thinking about what she wants her adult life to look like. I remember those years after college, nothing felt permanent, life was full of possibilities. I bet she was happy to live here.

If a boyfriend tried to paint my increasing desire to live close to my family as a lie, that would be the biggest red flag in the world. I bet a big part of it is that she sees her boyfriend live close to his family and she wants that for herself too. [/quote]

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