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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And you are involved in what way? Did your son ask for your help? Butt out. [/quote] Not OP, but this is a weird response. OP clearly indicated that her son was talking to her about it. There is a difference between trying to control and adult child, and being someone that they come to for advice and to talk things through. I certainly hope my kids do that when they are grown. I know I STILL go to my parents in that capacity and I am approaching 50.[/quote] The difference, however, is in this case, OP has an opinion about her. Her ability to provide objective non-biased feedback is already compromised. [/quote] [b]What? It is her son, of course she has a “non biased feedback”. [/b] Op, I would encourage him to take his time and think about the life he wants. It can be with her or not. Would he find a job there, have a career, make friends if he moved for her and it doesn’t work out with her? He is a BF at this point. [/quote] Maybe you are too dumb to understand this but... You got to let your kid grow up. That means you need to step aside and let him go his way. [/quote]
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