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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I get it that people that don't have families like this likely won't understand. I'm asking people who do. People who do will get what it's like.  [/quote]

My mom is like this - but it is not really nice.  If visiting, she will go on and on about how we should not do so much - or go on and on how they do not need anything.  But the thing is - she is not being nice. I know she turns around and complains about what we do offer (because she will do, it when she thinks I cannot hear her). It is an annoying act.  Or - she is actually mad because she wants to be the best host.  So if we have something like homemade rolls, she is actually angry because she uses store bought.  Store bought is fine.  I just wanted to make home made rolls.

It also is just a control thing - she wants to decide what a meal should be like.  So I get it OP.  With the big breakfast, just say you like to do it now and then, and if they do not feel like eating it, they do not have to.  [/quote]

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