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[quote=Anonymous]Ok OP sorry maybe I am oversimplifying this but why would he ask you to spend your time “paying him back” (???????!!!!) when if he wants to go on a trip, you all just ….send him on a trip? He can book and plan and go? Yes that would depend on everyone agreeing and shifting that money but he does see that his dumb plan of 1) you getting a promotion 2) time spent earning the extra $45k 3) THEN him going on some ghost trip he’s imagining. Also I would imagine he’s not going on a trip that costs the amount of his inheritance. He only really needs what? $5k, $10k? How long could he be going on a guys trip?

My take a little different. It seems unfair he gets to starts traveling but it mostly seems like he beat you to the punch about drawing a ping in the sand about what he wants to spend his time and money on. In long marriages these (clumsy) asks can find ways to be honored. I’m just not sure why he has a 12 step plan that involves a phantom amount of money that was already spent. [/quote]

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