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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I moved out with the kids, there were safety issues, but I told him I would stay married while living separately if he got help. So far that help hasn’t been enough to resolve the safety issues so we are kind of in limbo. There is this idea that you can force someone to get help and they will get better but the help doesn’t always work. My perspective may not be relevant without safety issues though.[/quote] What were the safety issues if you don’t mind me asking? I do not trust him alone with the kids (never know when something will happen and he’ll take Xanax and be unable to safely care for them) but there’s no threat of violence. He used to lash out verbally but has at least learned to leave immediately when he’s feeling that way[/quote] We were significantly beyond that. CPS was involved and advocated for supervised visitation. He was involuntarily hospitalized twice. There is a protective order. It's been rough. [/quote]
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