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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a 26F with a 3 y/o DC from a previous relationship. About 6 months ago via OLD I met a 41M (divorced with 3 DCs). I think he's great, we've really enjoyed spending time together, and at first I thought this would be casual but it's turned into a serious relationship. I don't have any desire to get married quickly or have any more kids. But I'm kind of getting the side eye from some friends and family about the age gap, and also the education gap - I never finished college but he has a graduate degree. We're exclusive but we haven't discussed anything like moving in together.

Do you think this is fine or am I going to look back on this as a mistake?[/quote]

Where do you see your life in the next 5, 10, 15, 20 years from here?

You have to take control of your life.  You're in your mid 20's and it may seem like you have forever to figure things out, but that time passes really really quickly.

What do you want for yourself?  What do you want for your child?

Your future may or may not include the current boyfriend.

It's your decision.

Where do you see your life when your 3 year old is 18?  i.e. 15 years from now?  What do you want for yourself?  What do you want for your child?  Do you want more children?  If so, do you think this guy is down for that?

You can't postpone deciding what your life is going to be forever, certainly not when you are responsible for not only yourself, but a 3 year old.

Do you want to go back to college?  If so, what for?  What are your career objectives?

There are so many questions about what your life could be.  So many different paths you could take.

It's all up to you.[/quote]

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