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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are so young! Why waste your youth on a 40 year old divorcee? I think maybe security is the answer here. And that’s fine, it just seems like such a waste. [/quote]

I mean, yes, this is true, but men in their 20s aren’t interested in women in their 20s who have kids. Her options are either date significantly older or don’t date at all. Seen it a million times. Then she’ll be 41 dating another 41 year old dad, but her kid will be an older teen and his kids will be elementary age at most.

I’ll be honest though I don’t see the age gap stuff as a big issue once you’re past a certain age. I’d say once you hit your mid 20s, date whatever age you want. You grow and mature a lot between early 20s and mid 20s, doubly so if you already have a kid. [/quote]

Her best option is to establish herself in career and yes resume dating in 10-15 years from now. She can date men in late 40s-mid 50s with grown up kids. They will be more on same page [/quote]
+1 OP, work yourself. Go back to school.  You need to be able to take care of yourself and your kid financially in the future without ever having to rely on a man.

How old are his kids? If they are much older than your kid, that means he will be done raising kids and will want to live an empty nester life.  Do you think he will want to raise your child for another several years? 
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