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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For example, we met at a restaurant the other day. I texted her to say “I’m here” since I told her I would be a few mins late. I went inside and she wasn’t there. A few mins passed and she walked in. She said “you didn’t tell me you were inside, you just said you were here.”

Another example is that I told her I had something to do at “around 3”. Later when I mentioned that I had a meeting at 3:15, she said “you told me it was at 3”.

She doesn’t say anything like “you’re lying” but she just looks skeptical and usually says “okay whatever”.

I’m not really sure what to do or if it’s just that she struggles with imprecise language?[/quote]

As for what to do, I would probably be busy the next time she asks me to meet her somewhere. Friendships should be easy/not a struggle—especially over these nothing scenarios you gave.

If I text someone I’m running late, I assume they are on time and inside waiting for me.

I don’t need policed by my friends, so if she is going to keep track of my schedule that closely I’m going to be busy a lot. Always even.

Good luck with that one.[/quote]

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