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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, he has gone back on anxiety medication, lost the weight, and is exercising regularly.  I’ve urged him to talk to his doctor about adjusting his medication.  I’m not interested in him being a sahm parent long term because he does the bare minimum or less (I still am in charge of laundry, he cooks, we do dishes/empty the dishwasher about equally. We have house cleaners come every three weeks.). [/quote]

I find it mind boggling that he hasn't worked since 2022 and "does the bare minimum or less".  Are you giving him a pass on that because he's depressed and anxious or because you just know he's not interested in being an equal partner in your marriage and family?[/quote]

He probably doesn't do it to her standards, so she just does it herself. OP, let go and let him take over.  Cancel the house cleaner because you can't afford it. He can do it--make a chore chart. People with dopamine shortages like to check things off lists. [/quote]

How about we see how OP answers the question, rather than listening to your guesses about her DH whom you've never met?[/quote]

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