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[quote=Anonymous]Reciprocity is really important in relationships. I learned that the hard way when my therapist told me I was doing 80% of the work in my marriage. Not married anymore, and my X is currently also doing 20% of the work in their current relationship. What you describe is an imbalance. Holding out hope that someone is as into you as you are into them is a horrible feeling, and it erodes over time, especially as he has been clear that he sees a progression and you don't. Deciding you're okay with it can border on cruel. I'd recommend you either end it, or be ready for him to find another. You're going to keep not meeting his needs and the gap is going to get bigger.[/quote]
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