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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You’ve already expressed your feelings about it. He has the choice to find who he’s looking for or continue on and persuade you. [b]For now, let it ride.[/b][/quote]

Unfortunately, the "let it ride" advice means that OP would continue to hide her true feelings from her boyfriend. He wants to move in together and eventually get married - he's made that explicitly clear.

But OP states the following:

[quote][i]Yes, happy to be faithful. But not sure about getting married or even living together.
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I doubt she's been that candid or blunt with him. She's likely hedged her comments to him and that has left him hoping for the best. "Let it ride" means continuing to lead him on for another 5 years.

I bet if she said to him "I'm not sure about getting married or even living together" his jaw would drop to the floor.

OP can come back to confirm. But now I'm leaning towards breaking up with him since she doesn't have the same goals as her BF.
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