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[quote=Anonymous]I am a woman in a same-sex relationship, and I compassionately say that I would never stand for this crap. Speak up for what you want! You wrote: And I started to wonder if my acceptance of doing everything is sending more of a signal that I will just go along with whatever he does in general which I am not ok with. __ I would tell him you want to have a sit-down and be very specific with him about what you want. Imagine you're guiding an employee at work. Tell him how his non-work affects you and the specific things you want to see changed and that you'll be sitting down with him in 3 weeks for a check-in. Say that your mental health is really suffering and you need this from him, and so does your kid(s). Ask him if he sees any barriers in the things you're asking him to do. Affirm that he's great in some areas but there are areas where you need help. I would not sacrifice my life to someone else's misperception of theirs. I don't want you to, either. [/quote]
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