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[quote=Anonymous]You have to be cruel to be kind, IMHO. The meanest people are those who drag it out longer than necessary, wasting someone's time and other opportunities to be with someone who does want to be with them. Or who ghost, or put them on the back burner, or stay with them and then criticize everything about them, or just have very randomized and rare communication. Not only do these tactics hurt the person, they cause lingering trauma which damages them for their next relationship. So you say, "I think you're a [great/kind/cool/XYZ] but I don't see this going anywhere. I wish you the best." And then go no contact so you don't string anyone along.[/quote]
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