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[quote=Anonymous]Being able to compartmentalize is usually necessary in order to continue an affair. As someone who has BTDT, I can tell you that you get obsessed on talking about it with whomever you share it with, especially if its just one friend, because you can stretch the compartment into another part of your life... I can't imagine having another affair, however. It was so traumatic and so really just not worth the drama or pain I caused. I worried all the time that I was a complete narcissist because while it was happening I was consumed with why doesn't affair person love me thoughts rather than omg, my poor DH thoughts. I was a little reassured by the fact that if you think you are a narcissist, you aren't, because you are actually somewhat self-aware.  Anyway, it all changed once I got caught out. But your friend's lack of ability to even perceive her shortcomings in these situations is just remarkable. She seems to crave excitement and drama, and is purposefully taking risks.  I would stay away, it is headed somewhere ugly, and you will only be dragged in more/leaned on more heavily if you don't make your feelings about her behavior clear. [/quote]

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