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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It sounds like he’s tired and you’re part of the exhaustion.[/quote]

Tired of what? Does being tired constitute making up lies to avoid saying “oh my bad, I screwed that up” or “ok, I can see why you think of it that way”?

Most of our problems lie in him telling me what I’m actually thinking or what I actually believe instead of just listening to what I said. [/quote]

Are both of you getting enough sleep?

He isn’t lying he is inferring what you are thinking based on your words, body language, and other factors.  Based on how you’re presenting here, I can’t help but think you were pretty snarky with him and it probably was clearly conveyed.  It sounds like you’re both somewhere on a downward resentment spiral.  You both need to get some sleep and get your heads screwed on correctly.[/quote]

OP here. Thanks for the reply. I think we sleep well enough but there’s always room for improvement. I guarantee you I gave him no snark or attitude when I asked. We were both so calm and normal. If I had an attitude or anything, he certainly would’ve told me.

We had such a good day today and there was nothing that was stewing for either of us to react negatively. It’s almost like once he realized his argument was weak, he popped up with “oh, you didn’t ask me anything, you told me XYZ!” instead of just saying “ok, my bad, it’s all good, let’s move on” [/quote]

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