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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - my wife doesn't want him staying with us either but she's afraid their relationship will get worse if she tells him he can't. I'm just think all her efforts are likely to be futile and that she's setting herself up for disappointment. I will probably ultimately just try to keep quiet to keep the peace but need to find a way to calm my own nerves over it.[/quote]

How can it get worse?[/quote]

+1 Your wife is so desperate for a relationship with her father that she is willing to overlook his refusal to have anything to do with her child? She needs to stick up for your (pl) son.[/quote]

I agree with this. I'm not saying he shouldn't stay but I think she needs to set up clear rules before this happens. And rule number one is that he show respect to you and your son. If he doesn't, he will be on his own to find a hotel. I'm all for your wife trying to reconnect with her dad but not if it means that you and your child are being disrespected in your own home.[/quote]

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