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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - my wife doesn't want him staying with us either but she's afraid their relationship will get worse if she tells him he can't. I'm just think all her efforts are likely to be futile and that she's setting herself up for disappointment. I will probably ultimately just try to keep quiet to keep the peace but need to find a way to calm my own nerves over it.[/quote] If it helps with your nerves, your wife is struggling with a father who doesn't seem to know or care about what she wants or needs. By asking her what she wants or needs from you, listening to her answer without judgment and supporting her, you're showing her what a healthy and supportive family relationship can be. Hopefully that will help her see that she doesn't have to accept this kind of treatment from her dad.[/quote] This is a great perspective to go into this with. Really sorry you and your wife are going through this, OP. It’s rough.[/quote]
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