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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=FBO][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did you end up with the affair partner?[/quote]

Yes[/quote]

Really?  Interesting. Are you and affair partner still together? Do you think you'll marry?[/quote]

We've been married over 6 years. Have 1 child. [/quote]

if you were a guy you would be called every name in the book and as a women, i think you should be as well[/quote]

So you are mad that the PP found someone who made her happy that was not her (then) current husband?

Jealous much?[/quote]

Not PP but to assume they will live happily ever after is naive. I have many people I know in this situation andthefactisther rate of divorce is very high.

I know somebody in this situation who divorce after more than 10 years- 3 kids. Another after 6 years.

There are his, hers, theirs, step kids, exes, etc.

Itis very hard on the kids.

I hope they are happy. But reality is often much gimmer.[/quote]

Oh come on. 10 years is a good chunk of time to be married and I dare say any couple with 3 kids could be susceptible to divorce after 10 years regardless of how the relationship started. When I think of a marriage that began as an affair failing because it started as an affair, I'm thinking of marriages that last less than one year. At 10 years, they have the same likelihood as any long term marriage of failing. I know you all want to believe that people have affairs and are miserable forever thereafter but in reality, some people have affairs and end up with people who make them happy. Or they leave their spouse for someone who makes them happier. Affairs aren't honorable but they can lead to favorable outcomes. [/quote]

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