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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why is your DH micromanaging you? Ask him to make the food if he is so particular. If you’re doing charcuterie I’d just pick up trays from Wegmans.[/quote] He doesn’t really handle food in our house so that’s why I’m trying to plan this all out. He does man the grill though! He also doesn’t want pre made charcuterie. He prefers to have all the meats and cheeses sliced fresh at the deli counter and then I arrange them. Also I add in other items like stuffed olives, soft cheeses like Brie , tapenades and hummus. Those are all store bought though so pretty simple. [/quote] Op, does it really not bother you that your “DH” is treating you like a caterer? This just sounds so demeaning. You need to worry less about charcuterie and sandwich combos and more about gaining some self respect.[/quote] Op here, This is totally uncalled for. DH isn't a good cook or host and I doubt he is going to learn all those skills between now and Tuesday. As far as him "treating me like a caterer" I don't see that at all. He is making his requests known.[b] Same as any other day when he says "honey, I'd like [insert item] for dinner tomorrow". [/b]That's not treating me like a caterer. I have a great deal of self respect. Part of it is making sure this visit goes off without complications. Once I get through day 2, I am not worried about the food logistics. Day three is just a brunch out at a restaurant and then I'll be serving dinner.[/quote] Things my DH would never say to me. Sorry OP but you allow this behavior so just do what he tells you to do! :shock: [/quote]
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