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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I am not going to claim to be an expert, at all. But reading your post made me wonder. I am afraid of saying this wrong, and in no way am I trying to be disrespectful or insulting. But is there any chance that the abuse and rage were part of what was keeping you "in" the relationship? Have you read about attachment in relationships at all? The idea is that how you bond with your primary attachment figure as a young child (usually a parent, often your mother) tends to be how you bond in intimate relationships, unless you understand that pattern and change it. So if your childhood primary attachment is problematic (as mine was), it can set the stage for problems in adult relationships. I saw a therapist for awhile who talked a lot about attachment, and your post made me think of that. HTH and wish you well [/quote]
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