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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] It's really sad that caregivers would be disparaged in that way. He has the mental make-up to be loyal and obedient, and he suffered from being under the thumb of a difficult person for decades. Now he's "free", he may have lost any momentum to take any sort of initiative, because it was denied him for much for his adult life. Think of him like a prisoner who has been released from prison. Have some compassion and understanding, OP. [/quote] It’s a sign of weakness to marry someone who puts them under their thumb, and then remains in this set up for decades. Then ice the oppressor dies, this person attaches himself to someone else to manage life and emotions for them. If you haven’t experienced this up close, you really don’t understand how it makes you lose respect for the oppressed person. [/quote]
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