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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Let it go. Your DH cannot just railroad his way into this. As someone who has a dad I’m not super close to and my dad is also remarried to someone I’m not close with, I would lose my mind if my husband kept pressuring me to get more involved when I literally have no ability to control any of this. Your DH tried and got nowhere. You cannot kidnap your FIL and get paperwork signed by someone no longer competent. Good grief.[/quote] +1 You have a husband is emotionally and physically disabled. Your family cannot take this on if they are uncoordperative. Your FIL made the choice not to get things in order all those years. He chose this wife. I went into rescue mode far too long and all it did was do in my health and stress my family. As the person says, you throw a life preserver, but if they refuse to take it you don't risk your family life to jump in the ocean to save them.[/quote]
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