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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ok, OP, you need to calm down.

1) This woman is crazy.  You know this.  So stop giving her words power over you.  So what if she says she's going to make the court take away your child support?  She can say that all she wants -- doesn't make it true.  If she's sending you crazy emails, block her email address.  If she's sending you crazy texts, block her number.  Disengage.  A judge -- ideally a non-crazy judge -- will work this out.  Deal with the judge, not with her.

2) That said, you need to readjust your focus here.  Your kid should be your number one priority, yes, but there is a new, innocent party here: this new kid has done nothing wrong, and is about to be hurled into a world of crazy drama.  Wouldn't it help this kid (if it turns out that the kid is your kid's half-sibling) to have access to [b]some stable family environment[/b]?  Right now, all your posts are about how the adults are interacting, and how the adults are pissing you off.  How about you stop worrying about the drama llamas and start thinking about this new kid, and how to help that kid out?[/quote]

That appears to be in short supply in this dynamic.  OP certainly isn't who I picture when I hear "stable."  [/quote]

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