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[quote=Anonymous]Trash is trash, I call it like I see it. I never said I was any better than anyone else, however, this woman is trash. Am I angry at him for even putting all of us in this situation? Yes. However I am not telling him what to do. And if we're one angry outburst from being 'cut off' ourselves, then so be it. That's on him. I'm not about to try and chase him down and force him to be a father if it comes to a point he no longer wants to do so. I can't make anyone do anything they don't want to do. This other woman doesn't understand that she can't make him come around, and neither can I. The only thing he can be made to do is support that child financially if it is his, and that's it. And he will accept that responsibility and pay what he is ordered to. And that should be it, but no, this woman goes so far as to tell me that's not good enough. She wants him ovr to visit, to spend holidays with her, to bring our child with him to do that, in her home, on every holiday, birthdays, weekends, etc. And that she will tell the judge since I work and she doesn't, that all support should go to her because 2 babies are expensive (since there's another one coming). This is nuts, and she thinks she can get a court to order this. That is why being involved would be beyond crazy in his eyes, and why I don't want my child anywhere near her. And that's just the beginning of her demands. 
But according to some of you, I'm just supposed to go along with our kids being siblings and everyone hold hands and sing songs and all is great just because of one sloppy drunken night. Now, try putting yourself in my shoes, and get these crazy emails from this woman, and see how you would feel...[/quote]

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