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[quote=Anonymous]Stop reading her social media and detatch. Two people can have different childhoods with the same parents. Her temperament and needs may not have been a good match with them. Regardless, you are too enmeshed. You can have a good relationship with your parents. You don't get to control her or protect them. It sounds like you are in the whole Golden Child /Scapegoat thing and it's not healthy. If they are venting about it all to you, you can tell them your experience with them was positive, but set a boundary-you don't want to discuss their upset with your sister. If you can't detach and stay out of it, a therapist may help.[/quote]
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