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[quote=Anonymous]I’m a woman who agrees with you, OP. It only helps if you’re talking to someone who can and will fix the problem. Like, if you tell your spouse it makes you feel bad when he XYZ and he stops doing that. Usually, though, he will get mad or defensive or something else that causes more issues. If your upset has nothing to do with the the other person, talking is only helpful if they can help you fix it. I’ve never understood people who complain that men want to solve your problem instead of just listen. I’m like, if you have advice on the solution, let’s hear it. Just listening to me be upset doesn’t help either of us! [/quote]
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