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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I had this feeling about only one of my DD's boyfriends in her teens, just one.  Followed the golden rule of my fellow moms and kept my mouth shut.  I supported them and welcomed him into our home.  He raped my DD and then dropped her.  We are awaiting his trial.[/quote]

WOW. Well, if that's not a cautionary tale then, I don't know what is....

OP, I think you might want to be more forceful about your opinion of your daughter's boyfriend given this PP's experience![/quote]

My husband and I didn't like a boy that his daughter (my step) started dating during her junior year. It's not that he was a mean kid who would rape her or anything (really). It's just that he and his family were low-class. Dad was a blue-collar laborer, Mom a secretary. Simple Catholics whose lives revolved around going to church on Sundays and Holy Days. He was in a few APs and supposedly did well but when you talked with him you could never see him in the workplace closing on a deal, you know? Too awkward and lacking in social graces and how to operate.

So we connected with a girlfriend of mine whose younger sister was a freshman at a college a couple of hours away. She was really hot and we gave her some money to really doll herself up--get her hair done, manicure, some hot new disposable clothes from FashionNova, etc. We had her show up at a party with a couple of her college friends, and we made sure our daughter couldn't attend so she could come on to him hot and heavy. He was goggly-eyed but didn't betray our daughter, but it didn't matter. This girl's friends took a few compromising pictures and she put a couple of really suggestive posts on his Instagram. She tagged the right people so it would get back to our daughter, and she dumped him.

Now, was this cruel? Of course. But our daughter wasn't really going to end up with this guy anyway; we just accelerated the process before he could bring her down in any way. And she knew to look more closely at who she dates moving forward without us having to openly bash the kid.[/quote]

:shock:  :shock:  :shock:

I don't know whether to be impressed or disgusted. On the one hand, that took a lot of strategic thinking and planning. On the other hand, how awful to manipulate and deceive your daughter in that way.[/quote]

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