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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]I feel like if you are a married adult woman who is having a real agonising type of crush, something is wrong with your marriage.  Like a silly schoolgirl thing is no big deal but if it feels “real” then something else is up.[/b]

My basis for saying this is because when I had those kinds of feelings for another man… something was terribly wrong with my marriage.  My husband was horribly abusive and I had been in denial about it for years and years.  In the end I had a pretty weird and serious emotional affair with a different person from my original crush and everything about that was terrible and not recommended.[/quote]

Sorry you suffered abuse.

Lots of people would disagree with the bolded. Even wonderful marriages with no abuse feature challenges and boredom. [/quote]

Exactly, there is some boredom or challenge going on in the marriage and OP should address that instead of a “don’t think of the colour red” type of mental exercise when it comes to the crush.[/quote]

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