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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A friend is unhappy with her nanny but the search to find a new one has been insane. I've been talking with her about it but I can't offer that much more insight are these normal tasks/asks

Pay is $27.50/hr after taxes 
1 baby girl

Tasks-

developmentally appropriate activities and planning an activity once a day 3x a week - sensory bin, art.

Clean big Toys/sterilize pacifiers once a month/daily tidy especially of toys going in the mouth/teethers. Can run in DW

Load bottles in DW

Stay on top of baby laundry

Keep nursery tidy, no heavy cleaning but wiping down the changing table once a day, keep it stocked, notify if running low on things

Put baby schedule first, keep routine

Asks- friend knows some are not the norm

Mom stays home, will accompany on most walks, once comfortable can discuss solo walks but no napping in the stroller

Only mom and dad will feed baby solids

No playdates

Mom will take baby to classes on the weekend or while nanny is taking care of laundry/tidying nursery/having a break

Basically my friend realizes from interviewing that most nannies want free reign and autonomy to do what they would like throughout the day and see who they want. But she doesn't want that dynamic and is very very overprotective. They need help because of her health needs/she needs a lot of rest right now. [/quote]

Okay, she has several options:
1. Advertise for a housekeeper who can hold the baby during the few times mom needs to have a break.
2. Advertise for a mother's helper role, an adult who has no experience with children and who will be happy to listen to everything mom says.
3. Advertise for a nanny and be clear that it's an on call position.  Nanny must be in the house during her hours, but once the baby tasks are done, if mom stills has the baby, nanny can sit and read or watch tv.
4. Advertise for a nanny and be clear that there are no walks, playdates, or classes.  Nanny does not need to drive or leave the house during the day.  Nanny will have autonomy within the house and will have plenty of time to do the baby-related tasks while mom takes the baby for walks and classes.[/quote]

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