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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My kids are in elementary school, and my answer is no. I actually felt better when they were little and in daycare—I was able to drop them off for a big chunk of time and work. I am actually considering taking a step back, which feels counterintuitive given I have done what’s logically the hard part (working fulltime while having babies/toddlers, working fulltime throughout online schooling). But I do feel like they need me more than ever.[/quote]

I actually think this is one thing people underestimate. I think late elementary and middle school are when our kids need our time the most. But it is hard to see that when they are little. I feel like I lucked out. I outsourced a TON when they were little. But upper elementary, I’ve made it to the top. I can now delegate, etc. in a way that lets me spend a ton of time with my fifth grader, etc.

Years ago, a friend of mine with older kids said “I think I need to become a SAHM now that they are in middle school.” At the time, I didn’t get it at all. Now, I get it.[/quote]

I thought I was in the home stretch when my oldest started kindergarten. I was not prepared for all the times we were asked to come to the school. Of course you can skip but then your kid will be the handful of kids whose parents don’t come to pastries for parents, thanksgiving lunch on a random day in November, Halloween, field trip to Cox farms, Halloween, meeting during the middle of the day to actually plan the Halloween party, pta meeting also late morning, book fair, fun fridays, etc. then there were the 10+ 2 hour delays and the 10+ snow days. Add on sick days, doc appointments, teacher work days, random holidays I never knew existed, spring break, winter break. It made it very difficult.

My third child just started kindergarten and my oldest is in middle school. I thought I could finally go back to work but they seem to need me more, not less. [/quote]

Crap, mine are in 3rd and 4th and this is what I was afraid of. I'm trying to get back but between sick days, student events, activities, cooking, cleaning, etc...it will be a miracle.[/quote]

It’s not that hard.  Seriously.  You’ll always come up with a reason to not return to work.  [/quote]

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