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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I get home about 4:30 and my husband normally works from home but signs off by 4-5 pm every day (then signs back in later) and if he's in the office (maybe once every couple weeks) he is home by 4:30 as well. Husband usually does work after bedtime, I usually don't but start my work day early. Like anything it depends on what job it is but I can't think of one friend with young kids I know of whose spouse comes home that late regularly so I don't think that is DC culture. Maybe the culture in some law firms and sometimes on the Hill, but other than that. Like if he's working a position on a Committee - sure, I might expect that but it would likely be a temporary position and more expected for that short term.[/quote] I suspect DH is comparing himself to the childfree people at work, not the other people with young kids.[/quote] sure but he's not a childfree person, so he needs to adjust his own expectations to meet his family's needs, especially since it isn't working for his partner. I'm the pp and my husband works in an office where he is one of the only people with young children, so I get it. His schedule is a little different than his colleagues and is it possible he will take some probably temporary hits because of that? Sure. For us, it is worth it. [/quote]
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