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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]I’ll be solo with dd for a week, and yes, I work. I’m tact I make more f-ing money than him.

If I don’t stand up for myself , my time, and my boundaries, he will walk all over me.[/quote]

Sounds like you both have built up a huge amount of resentment. This is not about him needing a nap and you refusing to help him.

That being said, in a healthy relationship he would have given you a heads up "DW, I'm beat and mentally exhausted, do you mind putting Larla down this time?" and you helping out your partner and hoping he'd do the same in a similar situation would say "Sure, np. I still need to do XYZ so when you're feeling better can you tag back in for a bit?"[/quote]

Op here. 10000% if he had said hey I’m super tired do you mind handling lunch and nap- I would’ve said yes.
It’s the assumption. The expectation. [/quote]

Ok that is more reasonable (I see now you were venting in the OP). If you care to repair the relationship, I would go to him and explain this once you are both calmed. [/quote]

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