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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Play hardball with her. There’s no need to take abuse from anyone, including your mother. As soon as she says something, respond with: “Stop talking to me that way. It’s rude, and I’m not putting up with it. Either you speak to me with respect or you find somewhere else to live. What’s your choice?” I’d keep track of what she says. Keep a log. Show it to her. Let her know “When you get to this line (point to a few lines down from her latest comment), this is when you leave. I don’t want any surprises for you.” [/quote] I recommend this approach, including keeping the log. She could live for years and years. Better to get it all in hand now. [/quote] This. There is another thread about "what do I owe my parents," and for an abusive parent, the answer is unquestionably "nothing." Ignore the trolls who just go around shitting on people.[/quote]
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