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[quote=Anonymous]I think you should call your husband's parents. Let them know what's happening and that you are separated and let them know why. I wouldn't say they shouldn't serve alcohol but would be clear that alcohol is a major problem and your husband their son is in recovery. Stay in a hotel when you visit so you can set a boundary with your spouse. Refuse to be actors. Let your family knownyour relationship is in trouble. I have a very supportive family and if my family members marriage was in trouble we would donwhat we could to support them (unless we realized it was too toxic). The earlier poster who mentioned secrets is correct. Also, even if you have full custody of your kids after divorce if your husband wants to excercise his parental rights or give you a bunch of grief he will be able to. I hope your marriage works but just in case it doesn't you will need that family support if a judge doesn't agree to supervised visitation or no overnights etc. [/quote]
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