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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It actually amazes me how different I was treated as a pretty woman. I was an ugly duckly, like really ugly. Then I went through puberty and starting at about 17 I was very attractive, and men fall all over themselves. I had a good friend though, that was BEAUTIFUL. The amount of attention I got was annoying, the amount of attention she got was off the charts insane. [b]When people say "they feel invisible" it is just that you go from everybody breaking their necks to look at you, falling over themselves to open doors, buying you drinks to nothing. [/b] You know because of the way society treats you, if you don't know its because you never received that treatment.[/quote] This is so, so true! I was very attractive as a teen and in my 20s. I knew it. After I had kids I had PPD and gained a ton of weight. I definitely felt the shift and it was humbling. I truly felt invisible. I spent three years working on myself, lost a ton of weight, focused on the way I presented myself, and one day I just noticed the attention was back. But I’ll never forget who I was when I was fat. It truly was a humbling experience. [/quote]
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