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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t know if he was deliberately messing with you, or if he is just a narcissist/deeply troubled/bad person who can mask it for a while before everything falls apart (you are very lucky that his mask dropped after only a month; some people drop it after they are already married or with a child and then you are F-Ed). Blocking him was very wise.

It’s true that red flags should have been going off earlier, big time. That’s the only thing you should be reflecting on, not his behavior, which isn’t your problem anymore (thankfully!).[/quote]

This. It sounds like he has a problem of some sort, and you may never be able to figure out exactly what the problem is--just that you don't want to be part of it OP. A friend married someone like this; he keep the mask up u til they got married and then became abusive rather quickly.

There are also guys who prescribe to a pick up artist behavior of "negging" so they try to wear you down and make you think you aren't a great person, and they are the only ones who will put up with you. Maybe he was missing dates because he has some sort of executive functioning problem, or maybe he was missing dates to see how much you would take. Can't tell. You dodged a bullet OP. [/quote]

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