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[quote=Anonymous]I’ve experienced this a few times as an adult. It honestly floored me because I don’t remember this happening in my friend groups in high school and college (maybe because I was in more co-ed company, or was oblivious since my core friends weren’t like that?). The worst were some women in a moms group I joined when I was new to the area. I learned much later that they were secretly evaluating new members, buddying up to some of them to get dirt on them, and then use them as pawns. These were all moms in their 30s. I quit the club rather abruptly due to the gatekeeping and gossiping. Not surprisingly, one of them reached out “to check on me”, then spread lies when I didn’t respond. Good riddance![/quote]
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