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[quote=Anonymous]	You seem to really want this friend to join your husband for sports and lunch, op. Why? You seem a bit too interested in how he spends his time and in what his wife won’t let him do. Strange, I’d be on team wife, maybe she needs or wants him home. Maybe she doesn’t want her husband associating with a family who speaks so ill of her, I know I wouldn’t.

That’s great that you and your husband do what works for you. Sunday is church for us, like another poster, and one thing I love is sitting with my family at church.  I certainly wouldn’t give up church time for my husband to go hang out with someone who married a nasty woman, not when he can spend his time with people who like both of us as well as our kids.

I’d be glad you and your husband do what works for you except you seem so smug, I don’t much like you.  It’s great you have the money for classes. It’s great you probably have the money for an indoor play space, or can tollerate the cold, or don’t mind your kids being in the cold while you sit in your car and watch them. It’s good you probably have 2 cars.  It’s good that your husband comes home in a good mood, not all husbands do, or they view their wife as a nag because “my friends wives don’t (fill in whatever) when in reality, you don’t know what goes on in someone’s home. Men and women emphasize different things when they talk, and will relay things differently.  It doesn’t mean anybody’s lying, it just means what isn’t a big deal to a man may be huge to a woman or the other way around. Some men only hear the male perspective and think there is some magical land of wives who don’t nag, will happily wash clothes in the river on a 40 degree day, always thrilled to have their husbands out later then expected, have elementary schoolers who can take themselves to their activities, and on and on.It can suck having your husband gone all day only to have him say “Well, Bob’s wife is happy washing all these dishes by hand”. Or “I just got home, why should I have to” or “give me a minute, I just got home” and the minute lasts for days.

Dial back on the smug, op.  
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