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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Tell us if they are single, married, have children etc.

Our AC (single, childless, mid 20s_ moved in with us due to the pandemic. They plan to be in this area for another couple of years for personal and professional reasons so they don't want to set up a home of their own. We do not charge for rent, groceries, utilities etc.  They are banking most of their money (except gas, socializing or their own shopping etc).

They are single. We are benefitting by -
- being able to travel without worry about home and pets. 
- companionship
- healthier living because a flexible communal routine is in place. 
- Household is running more smoothly
- more socializing happening at all age groups. More family holidays being celebrated, more people dropping by, more in-house guests. more hustle bustle.
- chores get divvied up organically. 
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South Asians?
Of course they are single, most women want someone who is able to live on their own (not just financially).[/quote]

I know some married sons and their families (DW, DC)  live in parents (IL) home.  They pool in money to buy big homes in good school district that they could not afford on their own early in their married life.

Not true that women/men want someone who lives on their own.  The wives of these men have big careers and they do not want to become  SAHMs to raise their kids. They only trust their ILs to look after their kids and it work well. Very successful and affluent families now. [/quote][/quote]

The neighbors in the affluent neighborhoods hate those houses with 20 people and 10 cars parked outside, such an eyesore.[/quote]

Never seen this. You don't live in an affluent neighborhood if you do, pp. [/quote]

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