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[quote=Anonymous]To all of you saying the kids will be traumatized. My best friend in elementary school (second grade-ish?) became a big sister and as the best friend and I were invited to watch the birth. (my mom was the backup for the best friend in case the daughter needed a babysitter). The mom asked my mom if she wanted me to see it (super hippy crunchy type). My mom, who was NOT a hippie in any way, actually asked me what I wanted to do. I said no, because I was really into privacy at the time - mine and other people's. But I have always wished that I said yes. Anyway, we totally knew about it, etc, and my friend watched it. She described it to me and spoke of it in awed terms; it was clearly a really amazing thing for her. She is very close with her younger brother. I remember this same mom breastfed in front of us (this was the late 70's or VERY early 80's) and it was the first we'd seen it. I'm so happy that I was exposed to that as a child. I have hospital births for a variety of reasons (drug free, though) but I'd totally be okay with my children being with me while I gave birth. I don't think it would scare them, either. I didn't do much screaming or acting like I'm in pain at all. [/quote]
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