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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am an older woman and I always fear crazies. I would never be very rude to anyone because I don't want to face any kind of violence. I want them to save face also. I would politely say, "Thank you for your pointers. While I appreciate your tips, I lose momentum when I am interrupted while working out. I really do need my alone time here before I get back on my mom duties. Thanks for respecting my request. " [/quote] No. Men like this are using your "I must be nice" default to their advantage. You do not need to be nice to him. I'd be direct. Especially because this is happening in public. It's good if he thinks you are a little crazy. The "nice" people are still targets to be bothered.[/quote]
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