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[quote=Anonymous]I’m sorry your BN group sucks. Mine is amazing. I have gifted and received so many nice things. I received a beautiful decorative bowl made by an artist from my hometown that meant nothing to someone here, but is special to me. I have gifted so many baby items and kids clothes that we no longer needed.Instead of dumping toys and household items at Goodwill where they are likely trashed, they go to people who actually want them. My kids have been gifted costumes for school presentations and borrowed sports equipment or items for hobbies we were trying out. I have a niche hobby that I have equipment and accessories for - and sometimes people borrow them. In return, when others abandon the hobby, I’ve been gifted leftover supplies. Of course there are people who seem to ask for everything - maybe they are greedy, maybe they are poor, maybe they are hoarders - not my problem as long as people aren’t just gifting everything to the first responder. I live in an affluent neighborhood and people give away crazy expensive things - my friend got a $900 stroller. I gave away a $250 pillow I let my decorator talk me into and later hated. I was gifted an air fryer. At least in my group people seem to have some humility about it - “just checking before I buy” is a common phrase. I think your biggest issue OP is that you are making it very personal. It’s more like a Goodwill donation. I don’t understand why you would wrap personalized packages for specific kids. Did you buy new items just to gift? [/quote]
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