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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You should’ve shut the co-author down and intentionally solicited comments from the soft-spoken lead author. An apology is warranted and you should feel sick.[/quote] I think there’s some value in this comment for guidance in the future. I think men often talk over women and a skillful interviewer would tactfully shut them down, especially in this context. What strikes me here is that both were actively engaged so you needed to gain control. And after you gained control, you ended up with more quotable quotes from the man. Why is that? Did the female stop engaging? Did you make efforts to draw her out? Did he monopolize the interview and if so how did you respond? I really think this is something you should look at before you figure out next steps. [/quote] I think the university sort of dumped their problem on OP's lap. OP is merely a 3rd party - 3rd party female no less. [/quote]
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