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[quote=Anonymous]I would decide what makes sense: we're willing to travel every other year, or whatever. On "off" years, you formally invite them. If they decline, you stay home. If they whine that you're not coming, you say, "So you yourself say that it is 'too expensive' to travel to us, so we're expected to incur the expense to travel to you every year? I don't think so." But here's what I'm not understanding about your story: you say your brother complained and asked them not to be so busy. They literally cleared their calendar, *like you asked,* and you eye-roll about that? Your attitude is a factor here, whether you can admit that or not.[/quote]
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