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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd get real practical here. He can take the job, but you get a housecleaner/housekeeper. The end.

I know you said it's not in the budget. Find the money. Lower his cell phone bill, he orders less takeout, whatever.

You need a housecleaner anyway. [/quote]

OP. This is probably the best solution.

He is absolutely terrible with money, and buys takeout nearly every day. Sometimes to the point where he comes up short for bills. But I think I will tell him, if this job is that important, he will have to sacrifice either his daily takeout, or his leisure time. Since that’s exactly what I do, I have to manage my food budget extremely closely and I have almost zero leisure time. No reason he can’t do the same. [/quote]

You’re still buying the bs narrative of leisure time etc. And you have separate food budgets? Whose budget does the kids food come out of? Nothing will change until you first get some outside help and two file for divorce.[/quote]

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