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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think it's never wrong to tell someone you're thinking of them.[/quote] Uh no. I assume OP is a good person and has the best of intentions. My MIL and SIL love to do this sort of thing as part of Schadenfreude. We keep our distance, but they have set off a lot of family fires with others because it is clear they don't really feel bad, they just want the person to know they know. My mother during her darker period was like this.[/quote] I have no idea what this even means and seems oddly premeditated and a bit...weird to assume this is someone's intentions. Unless they have a history of being a psychopath. If I were having a rough time, I'd appreciate the thought. I had a scary doctor's appt last month and my MIL reached out to ask how it went. I didn't tell her directly but assumed DH did. I did not assume she was fishing for info or "letting me know" that she knew. WTF?[/quote]
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